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What I Learned Last Monday (and since then) about Injustice

What I Learned Last Monday (and since then) about Injustice

Last Monday was Martin Luther King Junior Day. A day we as a nation focus on racial inequality and injustice. We’ve struggled with this issue pretty much since day one. On this holiday I often wonder what it is I should personally do to address race issues. I feel so helpless to effect any kind of change. And on a broader scale, what can/should I do about any injustice? What words should I say to others? What actions should I…

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Has 2018 Already Found You Wanting?

Has 2018 Already Found You Wanting?

I don’t know about where you live, but in the world outside my window it’s c-c-c-cold. These days we’re happy if the temps rise above zero. Our landscape is covered in white, with fresh coatings usually once or twice a week. And on the days the sun shines, the angle of its rays results in mood-elevating brightness for about eight hours. Maybe it’s this fresh clean look that stirs hope this time of year. For at least the first few…

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My Child’s Mom

My Child’s Mom

He reported watching out the back window of the car as they drove away with him. His mom stood in the road waving until he rode out of view. That was the last time my son saw his biological mom. He was four years old. This scene breaks my heart. Some of my other children tell their own heartbreaking experiences of the day they were taken from their parents. Yes, I know. I have the documents from the court hearings…

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Did Mary Deserve to be Jesus’ Mother?

Did Mary Deserve to be Jesus’ Mother?

I used to stand under the soothing waters of a warm shower and cry to God, “I was a good girl!” (And I was—for the most part.) “What did I do to deserve this?” This meant sharp-edged children who didn’t know how to accept me as their mom. Us rule-followers can find like-minded characters in the Christmas story. You see, Zechariah, Elizabeth, Mary, and Joseph were all described in the Bible as righteous people. (So was Job.)   But despite…

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God Knows What it’s Like to Relate to Children Who Don’t Know How to Attach

God Knows What it’s Like to Relate to Children Who Don’t Know How to Attach

Okay, let’s get this ugly confession out of the way right now. We need to expose it, let it disgust us, let it bring us low, and then let it deliver us. We treat our Heavenly Father just like our unattached children sometimes treat us. Yep, we do. He gives; we gripe. He forgives; we fail again. He embraces; we enter in and just as quickly exit out. He assures us; we refuse to accept it. He protects; we protest….

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Christmas: Adoption in Reverse

Christmas: Adoption in Reverse

Can we find adoption in the Christmas story? At first glance, that seems like a stretch. But then again, if we pause long enough and dig deep enough, we might just find it there. After all, didn’t Jesus come to heal the hurting? To restore the broken? To seek and save the lost? (Luke 4:8; Luke 19:10) Surely if we look closely we can find messages of hope for the adopted, and the adopters. The Christmas story actually is an…

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